i am a gay male 40 years and descibe myself as a bear,medium weight not too big..and i am looking for online friends and real friends with the possibilty of a long term relationship,my intrests include music,art,reading, romance,happiness,sex the usual things.

i am looking for a friend or partner pref a bear,daddy or someone older or alternatively someone around the same age as me abit of extra weight is fine, no offence twinks dont do a thing for me and i would prefer perhaps more than simply a fleeting sex partner i am usually a top but with the right guy i could do anything within reason,and i am romantic without being smothering,spending the night in front of and open fire with a bottle of wine and a nice guy is my idea of simply heaven ...who could ask for much more